Okilu

Mum, can I play video games?

The answer? You wrote it together.

The conditions are agreed as a family: Okilou checks and unlocks. Never punitive.

Free for one child and one home, forever. No ads, no tracking, no account needed.

TodayNino, 8
  • Homework done
  • Evening reading
  • Tidy room

Unlocked

30 min, or an activity of their choice

Agreed in advance, never renegotiated.

How it works

They check off. You validate. It unlocks.

  1. Agree on the conditions together: homework, reading, a tidy room, and what they unlock. Age-based templates give you a head start.
  2. Your child checks off their wins on their own screen, and an "Oki!" lands on your phone.
  3. You validate with one tap, even from the notification, and what was agreed unlocks.

To validate

Nino checked off
Tidy room 3 minutes ago
Validate

And it unlocks what was agreed

  • 30 min
  • Trip to the park
  • An extra story
  • Time just the two of us

Or automatically, for the routines you trust.

Earned stays earned.

There is no balance in the app: points open a tier, they are never spent, and nothing can take them away.

No counter ever goes down.A slip-up opens a repair. Nothing is taken away, and nothing carries over to tomorrow.
Earned and keptThis morning's 30 minutes stay right where they are

Slip-up noted on Tuesday

One word too many

You talk it over. Nino holds the key to putting it right.

Repair: say sorry

Screen, outing, activity.

What gets unlocked is up to you: an extra story, an outing, pizza night, thirty minutes of screen time.

Tier reached

4 points

Pick an activity

  • An extra storyPick
  • Trip to the parkPick
  • 30 min of screen timePick
Your child can suggest their own wishes

You accept with one tap and it joins the menu. The template for ages 3 to 5 has no screen time at all.

Two homes. One child.

Week A/B, 2-2-5-5, weekends, one-off swaps: each home keeps its rules and its peace of mind, and the child keeps a single journey.

Today you're at your other home

Nothing to check off, nothing crosses over. Each home keeps its peace, and one subscription covers both.

Custody schedule2-2-5-5
M1T2W3T4F5S6S7 M8T9W10T11F12S13S14
Your homeOther home

Free. No ads.

No trackers · Data hosted in France · Your data is never sold

What you set up stays yours.Plus and Family plans for when the family grows, with a 14-day trial and no card details. Without a subscription, one child and one home stay free for life; any extra children or homes simply pause, and nothing is lost. Export everything in one tap, and delete it all whenever you like.

Currently available in France, and in Switzerland on iPhone. More countries soon.

Free€0

For life, no card needed

  • One child, one home
  • Every rule, the whole app
  • Works offline, no account needed

Why they ask again, right after you've said no

Because sometimes it works. An answer that varies rewards persistence: psychologists call it intermittent reinforcement. What pays off now and then is more motivating than what pays off every time. It's how slot machines work. And the tired Friday-night “fine, go ahead”? That's a jackpot.

So they try again. At the right moment, with the parent most likely to say yes, in the tone that works. Your child isn't being difficult: they're being logical. And you don't have an authority problem: you have a rulebook that lives in your head, at the mercy of your energy, whether it's 10 am on a Saturday, a school night, midweek, or the middle of the holidays.

Okilou gives the rule a place to live, outside your head. Agreed as a family, calmly, posted where everyone can see it, like a chart on the fridge. Except this one checks, keeps track, and gives the same answer at any hour, with either parent. Your child can even answer themselves: their progress is right there on their screen. They don't stop asking because they lost. They stop because they know.

But aren't Okilou's points and tiers the same mechanism? No: it is the exact opposite of the slot machine. Everything is written in advance, and the same action opens the same thing, every time. Points are never spent; they open tiers: nothing is spent, nothing is taken away, and a rule change waits until tomorrow morning. Doing more opens more, but the deal is never up for negotiation, not with the child and not with a tired Friday evening.

We agreed. Okilou remembers.

Frequently asked questions

Do I need an account?

No. Okilou runs entirely on your phone. The optional account only exists to sync with a second parent or the child's own device.

What if my child checks something they didn't do?

A child's declaration stays "pending" until a parent validates it. You can also switch trusted routines to automatic validation.

Is it punitive?

Never. No negative points, no debt: a slip-up can be repaired, and what's earned stays earned.

All questions

Okilou is made by Devgo, in France.
An independent family app, built with real families.